Aligned Attraction
A Modern Relationship School for Self-Aware Women Who Want to Break Old Patterns & Create Sexy Secure Love
You're ready for the kind of relationship where...
You feel seen, heard, and valued, because your man listens attentively as you speak, empathizes with you, celebrates and supports you, challenges you, and sees your greatness.
You feel safe and secure, because he welcomes all of your emotions, encourages your expression, and affirms his love for you at every turn.
You feel confident and grounded that you can navigate anything together because he shows up as a team player and leader, ready to find win-win solutions in challenging moments.
You feel appreciated, adored, and desired because he’s attentive to your needs, attuned to your body, and makes intentional efforts to show how much he cares.
You have a partner who can be your trusted confidant, your passionate lover, and your best friend.
However, throughout most of history, marriage and partnership was not intended to satisfy our needs for intimacy and romance...
We want our relationships to be meaningful, transcendent, sexual, novel, fulfilling, spiritual, erotic, passionate – and so much more!
Today, women want men who are willing to do the inner work & cultivate emotional intelligence, and with whom they can build a true partnership…
But no one taught us how to ‘do’ love and relationships in this new paradigm (hence the 50% + divorce rate)…
If you’re reading this page, you’re at the cutting edge of a love revolution!
We both repeated these dating and relationship patterns for years before meeting each other...
We both repeated these dating and relationship patterns for years before meeting each other...
So, how do you create a Resilient Relationship?
There are a few things you need to know to really get how healthy attraction and relating work…
Because Disney and Hollywood have sold us lies about love...
In fact, real life (healthy) love and relationships require that you:
- Become aware of your unhealthy patterns and work through them
- Get in touch with and take radical responsibility for your emotions, needs, boundaries and desires
- Communicate compassionately and constructively, even when things get hard
- Listen with deep presence and empathize with your partner's experience
- Cultivate the ability to challenge your outdated narratives and beliefs
This is the foundation for a Resilient Relationship...
One that grows and evolves as you do...
Inviting you to rise up to your highest potential...
So you can create a relationship that INSPIRES you!
YOU MUST BE THE
partner to yourself
THAT YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO BE TO YOU
But here’s the thing, the majority of us never learned how to relate in a healthy way because we didn’t have healthy models for love…
It's likely that you experienced one or more of the following:
Strained love between your parents/caregivers where what was modeled was: destructive communication, conflict, inauthenticity, withdrawing & shutting down, defensiveness, anger, blaming, keeping score, martyrdom, etc.
Divorce, separation, or death where there wasn’t consistent love, support, or presence provided by two parents
Parents who were indifferent to each other and tolerated each other, but where there wasn’t true partnership
Or, if your parents are still happily married, they didn’t teach you the skills required for YOU to be able to create the healthy, thriving relationship you desire
What we want to offer you is something radically different from your childhood, and even better and more satisfying than Disney & Hollywood!
Relationships are Fractals
There is ONE master pattern that governs the rest of the patterns that stem from it.
In other words, your relationship with yourself gets projected onto everyone you meet and relate to.
All other relationships mirror the one you have with yourself.
When you shift your relationship with yourself – by design – you shift your relationship with EVERYONE in your life…
Including:
The men you attract,
The men you date, and
The men you choose to be in a relationship with
And the kind of relationship you can create with a man (when you show up as the best partner to yourself) is exponentially healthier and more aligned than any other kind of relationship.
SO HOW DO YOU CREATE SPECTACULAR LOVE WHEN…
You weren't given a template for healthy relating that is aligned with the kind of love life you actually desire…
So where did you get your original love template (i.e. your beliefs, ideas, and narratives about yourself, men, love, relationships?)
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