Ep 82: How Dominance and Submission Works in a Romantic Relationship with Two Type A Partners

In this episode, I share why having a Dominant/submissive or a Leader/follower dynamic works so well for my partner (type A male) and me (type A female). 

For most of my life, I’ve identified as a high achiever, type A personality woman…

While this was great for my career, it wasn’t great for my romantic relationships (with masculine men)…

Secretly underneath all of my shining leadership qualities, I actually wanted to be led. 

I wanted to follow someone I could trust and surrender to…

I just didn’t know how to do that in dating and love (until I learned how)…

And until I met a man who was trustworthy and worth surrendering to! 

Taking on a surrendered, feminine role in my relationship has been the most liberating, rewarding thing I could choose for myself as a Type A woman. 

In this video, I share a piece of er0tica writing that captures the essence of my relationship dynamic with my partner, and what could be possible for you in your relationships. 

I also give you the 3 ways you can start to feel safe to surrender in your relationship — whether it’s with a man you have yet to meet or your current partner.


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